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Just would like to know how to handle this. My friend of a year recently got married and was seeing another man got pregnant had an abortion and now is pregnant again by this other man. Her husband was recently informed of her decietfullness by the other lover and at this moment she told him it is all a lie. I know the truth. She made her husband believe that this other man is just upset that she stopped their relationship. And he believes her. I dont want to judge because I have no right to. But it has gotten to the point where she is discreditting my husband(he is good friends with her husband)and I am just disgusted that she keep lying. She has involved me and my family by telling me her little secrets and I just don’t know what to do. I am thinking about confronting her about her lies. I am trying to be her friend and trust her to do what is right but obviously from her previous lies she will not do that and I have to seperate myself from her. But I want to do it in a nice way seeing as we live across the street and our husbands spend a lot of time together. Please help!
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Just would like to know how to handle this. My friend of a year recently got married and was seeing another man got pregnant had an abortion and now is pregnant again by this other man. Her husband was recently informed of her decietfullness by the other lover and at this moment she told him it is all a lie. I know the truth. She made her husband believe that this other man is just upset that she stopped their relationship. And he believes her. I dont want to judge because I have no right to. But it has gotten to the point where she is discreditting my husband(he is good friends with her husband)and I am just disgusted that she keep lying. She has involved me and my family by telling me her little secrets and I just don’t know what to do. I am thinking about confronting her about her lies. I am trying to be her friend and trust her to do what is right but obviously from her previous lies she will not do that and I have to seperate myself from her. But I want to do it in a nice way seeing as we live across the street and our husbands spend a lot of time together. Please help!
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Tags: Abortion, Good Friends, Little Secrets, Marriage, Relationship, Truth
June 9th, 2009 |
Tags: Abortion, Good Friends, Little Secrets, Marriage, Relationship, Truth
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June 12th, 2009 at 11:31 am
First off, it’s not good to have a pathological liar as a friend. She will mess you up with her lies when it becomes something important to you one day.
I would probably distance myself from her, and let her recess back to the hole for which she came.
I doubt the husband would believe you if you tried to tell him. It sounds like it’s just a matter of time before he finds out any ways.
June 15th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
Just start little by little getting away, she will finally gets the picture and besides do not let things bother you that have nothing to do with you and do not affect you, why even get involve in someone else’s problem,mind your own business.
June 16th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
Tell her how you feel and that you dont want to be a part of the lie. Slowly separate your self from her and discus with your husband why.
If the $#%@ hits the fan you dont want to be blamed for knowing
June 19th, 2009 at 3:54 am
She is not your friend if she is discrediting your husband. She does not deserve your trust because she has shown you that she is someone who is not trustworthy. If you feel like you need to be her friend confront her and tell her that you do not want to hear about her unfaithfulness. Explain to your husband what is going on, her husband has not done anything wrong so he should not lose your husband as a friend. Once the baby comes hopefully her husband will be able to tell that the baby is not his. If you hang out with her then your husband may think that you agree with the life style of cheating. (Just FYI)
June 21st, 2009 at 8:39 am
does your husband know this secret? does this “friends” husband know it’s not his kid coming?
he’s what I feel, ANY WOMAN that makes another man think that a child is his and it isn’t should be ratted on. not only does the man suffer but the child as well. A child living a lie that he or she doesn’t even know.
To keep your head outta the clear I would tell hubby and his buddy and have him demand a paternity test on the child, sometimes that will clear it up on it’s own and you don’t look like a busy body. however I myself would not continue being friends with this woman and I would tell her that it’s wrong in so many ways and you cannot stand by and watch lives being torn.
Good luck your in a pickle!
remember the victims and know who the one that’s making victims…if you know what i mean.
June 24th, 2009 at 3:07 am
Don’t be friends with her anymore and if your husband doesn’t know what’s going on, he should. You don’t need her drama in your life.
saying: If you lay down with dogs you get up with fleas!