Lisa asked:


We’ve been together for three years. We’ve had ups and downs, but I’m just tired of trying to make it work. I’m tired of lies and so on. We have been great friends, but lately I don’t have a lover or friend. We live together and we planned on moving to a new location this summer. But I’m moving without him. Basically, I’m scared to bring it up because he can be manipulative and intimidating. How do I break up with him without all of the drama, and maybe be friends?
Oh I’ll definitely give the ring back, I’m not that kind of person. It was his grandmothers, I couldn’t do that to him or his mother.
He lies about relationship stuff, not about friend stuff and unfortunately we’re both sick so there will be no celebrating valentines day.. even though I got him something… he didnt get me anything yet. =(

compulsive lying

Coolestchris asked:


me and this girl have been dating for 4 months today and the other day i almost moved away because she was lying so much and i found out the truth. this is a big deal even know most people wouldn’t think so. i tried to make her quit smoking but she refuses to do so, and she’ll do it behind my back all the time with her friends and stuff, so i just had her slow down on the smoking which i think would be more then ok on my part. i really dont want her to smoke..but thats not even the start of it…me and her met on the internet awhile back and we talked for a few months before finaly meeting eachother in person, but the first day that i was here with her we had sex, no this is what made me extreamly mad. before we did anything she said that i was the biggest shes ever had and after we were done she said that i was the best…i found out two days ago that wasn’t true. shes been lying to me this whole time on how many guys she’s slept with and she lied to my face about me being the biggest and the best, the best part is no longer i prob i dont think because last night she said i truely was irght after we were done, but im not sure i can trust her with that statement. literally every promise that she has made shes broken…im really not sure if i should stay with her or not…she says all i need are friends so that we can get time away from eachother and stuff but im nearly always at school or work, same with her. i dont like her friends at all because they’ll try and make her drink and smoke weed and stuff which im not cool with at all. i really love her alot and she says she loves me but i dont think it’s the love that you would give to a lover, maybe just a friend. all my friends say i should leave her and just go back to colorado or arizona to be with someone else which i can do, but im scard if i leave this girl im not going to find another girl that ill love. i even lost my job because i wanted to save our relationship but all she wants to do is hang out with her friends and never be around me. another thing…we live with her parents and her sister. i need advise now, from anyone!!! what should i do?

infidelity

djgspeedbug asked:


over yet you tried to believe the lie and uncover it 6 months later and your lover says they are so sorry and the reason they lied was so you wouldnt break up with them what would you do

infidelity

Jake Rausch asked:


I was watching lie to me its a great show but it made me think if you could know every time that your lover lied to you would you want to know. i dont think i would cause everybody lies but then you can never trust them and your relationship will never last cause it would seem to be all lies

compulsive lying