I lied to my lover that he got me pregnant and that I had an abortion when I went away for 1 month vacation…I did it to get his attention, feel closer to me, and not forget about me. Of course I didn’t ask him for any money or to “get rich” out of this; I would never do that. This was a big mistake. Even though supporting my decision, he feels incredibly guilty and can’t get past the guilt that I had an abortion; I now feel very bad. He also said to me that he is not comfortable with the idea of us making love anymore because of his guilt.

If I tell him the truth, would it make things worst, or do you think it’s the best thing to do? If you’re a male: would knowing the truth relieve you, or make you very angry/make this worst, and it’s better off I don’t say anything?

karrie asked:


Just would like to know how to handle this. My friend of a year recently got married and was seeing another man got pregnant had an abortion and now is pregnant again by this other man. Her husband was recently informed of her decietfullness by the other lover and at this moment she told him it is all a lie. I know the truth. She made her husband believe that this other man is just upset that she stopped their relationship. And he believes her. I dont want to judge because I have no right to. But it has gotten to the point where she is discreditting my husband(he is good friends with her husband)and I am just disgusted that she keep lying. She has involved me and my family by telling me her little secrets and I just don’t know what to do. I am thinking about confronting her about her lies. I am trying to be her friend and trust her to do what is right but obviously from her previous lies she will not do that and I have to seperate myself from her. But I want to do it in a nice way seeing as we live across the street and our husbands spend a lot of time together. Please help!

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