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my husband and I have had a lot of problems the last few months and so have been going to counseling every week to work thru things. During this time he confessed to cheating on me and just last night I revealed that I too had cheated on him. The last time I cheated was 8 months ago and since then I have recommitted myself to my home and family. I have vowed to never to that again, not just to him, but to myself as well. But now I feel like since I told him what I had done that he may go out and cheat again. We are trying to build the trust again, but I dont know how to do that very well. Should I just relax and realize that he prolly feels the same way I do as far as never letting it happen again? After all, he has told me time and time again that he wont cheat on me. I guess I still have my doubts, and I am confussed what to do. *Sigh* thanks for all input
my husband and I have had a lot of problems the last few months and so have been going to counseling every week to work thru things. During this time he confessed to cheating on me and just last night I revealed that I too had cheated on him. The last time I cheated was 8 months ago and since then I have recommitted myself to my home and family. I have vowed to never to that again, not just to him, but to myself as well. But now I feel like since I told him what I had done that he may go out and cheat again. We are trying to build the trust again, but I dont know how to do that very well. Should I just relax and realize that he prolly feels the same way I do as far as never letting it happen again? After all, he has told me time and time again that he wont cheat on me. I guess I still have my doubts, and I am confussed what to do. *Sigh* thanks for all input
November 7th, 2009 |
Tags: Cheating Husband, Cheating Spouses, Doubts, Last Time
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