SueB asked:


My fiance does not want to live in military family housing after we marry. He said he hears so many stories of cheating by both spouses and he doesn’t want me exposed to that lifestyle. It would be a lot cheaper and I would like to know what other people think.
We trust each other and our couples friends are all pretty decent but he says the atmosphere on base housing is nasty and he’s disgusted because there are so many children living in that mess.

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Lisa asked:


We’ve been together for three years. We’ve had ups and downs, but I’m just tired of trying to make it work. I’m tired of lies and so on. We have been great friends, but lately I don’t have a lover or friend. We live together and we planned on moving to a new location this summer. But I’m moving without him. Basically, I’m scared to bring it up because he can be manipulative and intimidating. How do I break up with him without all of the drama, and maybe be friends?
Oh I’ll definitely give the ring back, I’m not that kind of person. It was his grandmothers, I couldn’t do that to him or his mother.
He lies about relationship stuff, not about friend stuff and unfortunately we’re both sick so there will be no celebrating valentines day.. even though I got him something… he didnt get me anything yet. =(

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