Our marriage hit the rocks due to her & I being unequally yolked ( religiously) she believed in Christ, but she didn’t show it with me. She was diagnosed with an illness (Major Depressive Disorder) and

she would hit me, say the meanest things and then tell me to leave.

I recently found the proof of her having an affair after at least a month of Suspiscion….She wrote in her own diary that I hit her and cheated on her & I can’t figure out why would anyone lie to themselves through a devotional. She is not on her meds anymore and I don’t know how long she has not been taking the Zoloft.

I know I can’t contribute her infidelity, forging and hot check writing all to the disease, but I fear that the lover she moved in doesn’t TRULY have a clue what he is in, & I also fear his violent temper/ understanding may spark him to wail on her.
I shouldn’t care anymore, but I share a child with this woman and I wish I could know how much of all this Drama is due to her illness.

leopluridean asked:


How do you become a PI who specializes in catching cheating spouses?
Do you need degree’s etc…?
Yeah I don’t think it’s glamourous. It’s kind of like what I do now as a collector though just in person. A lot of the same skip tracing stuff to find out where people are. Just reporting back to the suspicious spouse with info. I get paid whether they were being cheated on or not. I don’t mind waiting in my car. That’s what psp’s are for ^_^

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djgspeedbug asked:


over yet you tried to believe the lie and uncover it 6 months later and your lover says they are so sorry and the reason they lied was so you wouldnt break up with them what would you do

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me asked:


living in Mexico and you were married in Mexico if you file for a divorce due to “abandonment” by your husband?

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qcfx2a asked:


For some of you who don’t know, America now has a 50+% divorce rate which anyone with a right mind could tell that its a big problem.

Some sociologists and psychiatrists say that one way to solve the divorce problem is to teach people, especially children, the importance of strong family values and strength of character.

But modern day television shows plots where characters are divorced or remarrying and how involved characters deal with it. Even children’s shows have this, usually to help children deal with divorced or remarrying parents.

But the problem is these plots get misinterpreted by kids. That aside from learning how to deal, they get the impression that divorce IS inevitable. That marriage will ALWAYS be temporary.

So now how would you teach kids how to deal with their divorced/remarried parents AND at the same time teach them the importance of strong family values?

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