Our marriage hit the rocks due to her & I being unequally yolked ( religiously) she believed in Christ, but she didn’t show it with me. She was diagnosed with an illness (Major Depressive Disorder) and

she would hit me, say the meanest things and then tell me to leave.

I recently found the proof of her having an affair after at least a month of Suspiscion….She wrote in her own diary that I hit her and cheated on her & I can’t figure out why would anyone lie to themselves through a devotional. She is not on her meds anymore and I don’t know how long she has not been taking the Zoloft.

I know I can’t contribute her infidelity, forging and hot check writing all to the disease, but I fear that the lover she moved in doesn’t TRULY have a clue what he is in, & I also fear his violent temper/ understanding may spark him to wail on her.
I shouldn’t care anymore, but I share a child with this woman and I wish I could know how much of all this Drama is due to her illness.

How far have you gone to catch your spouse cheating and how well did it help you?

This is very serious.

I’m not asking what I should do. My marriage is ok.

I was just wandering because I know people who are curious about thier own.

Let’s see, in the past month we have Reese and Ryan, Britney and K-Fed, and now Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock divorcing – the last after only four months! And that’s just among the celebrities!

Let’s face it, the divorce rate in the US is horrendous.
But I’m not really here to run down marriage per se, but to campaign for it being a right, given by and administered by the STATE, that should be available to all.

When I hear same-sex marriage discussed, there’s always someone who says that removing the bigotry and discrimination, i.e. allowing two people of the same sex to marry, will “dilute” heterosexual marriages and imperil the institution. I fail to see how broadening the people who can get married will imperil anything – but the preaching of hatred and discrimination.

And please don’t give me the tired “argument” about the slippery slope to polygamy and bestiality. When marriage is defined by two PEOPLE, as I said, this is not a logical conclusion.

Thoughts?

Aussie Chick asked:


Sounds mighty hipocritical to me. Because she’s a celebrity the fact that she’s divorced can be overlooked? You can’t have one rule for plebicites, and another for celebrities.
Sorry, I should have said just plebs. Thanks for the corrections.

domma asked:


Can you ever trust them again? How do you not stop thinking about it, or bring it up when the next arguement hits?Does the marriage eventually break up anyways? Can people be happy after cheating and the spouse finds out?