Lisa asked:


We’ve been together for three years. We’ve had ups and downs, but I’m just tired of trying to make it work. I’m tired of lies and so on. We have been great friends, but lately I don’t have a lover or friend. We live together and we planned on moving to a new location this summer. But I’m moving without him. Basically, I’m scared to bring it up because he can be manipulative and intimidating. How do I break up with him without all of the drama, and maybe be friends?
Oh I’ll definitely give the ring back, I’m not that kind of person. It was his grandmothers, I couldn’t do that to him or his mother.
He lies about relationship stuff, not about friend stuff and unfortunately we’re both sick so there will be no celebrating valentines day.. even though I got him something… he didnt get me anything yet. =(

compulsive lying

asiana asked:


my bf cheated on me and his lover kept lying to me about their relationship. they swear that it is over; his lover moving on to another relationship. I bent over backwards to trust them because I wanted to believe them; forgive them, and accept her in his life as a forever friend. It is an impossible task. In my heart it is over, esp. since finding internet searches for upcoming vacation, while he is supposedly working. What am I to do now? We live together. He is out of town at the moment. I don’t want to be irrational, teary or screaming when he comes home to me and I confront him.

lying

ricodiva asked:


It can be any type of relationship; brother, sister , mother, friend. Please give me a whole story.

Mine was letting go of a man that I truly thought was my soul mate. He could never tell me he loved me because he had a problem. He wouldn’t stop smoking weed and when he couldn’t get high he took it out on everyone. Leaving, knowing that he had a physical addiction and might not be ok, was one of the hardest things I have ever done. I love life and live it to the fullest but I really feel like he should be sitting here with me. I am moving on and see other people. I allow myself to become fully envolved but when I go to bed and wake up, I still feel like he should be lying next to me. He was my lover, my best friend and confidant but he has a serious problem and I couldn’t help him with it.

cheating boyfriend