I lied to my lover that he got me pregnant and that I had an abortion when I went away for 1 month vacation…I did it to get his attention, feel closer to me, and not forget about me. Of course I didn’t ask him for any money or to “get rich” out of this; I would never do that. This was a big mistake. Even though supporting my decision, he feels incredibly guilty and can’t get past the guilt that I had an abortion; I now feel very bad. He also said to me that he is not comfortable with the idea of us making love anymore because of his guilt.

If I tell him the truth, would it make things worst, or do you think it’s the best thing to do? If you’re a male: would knowing the truth relieve you, or make you very angry/make this worst, and it’s better off I don’t say anything?

A.L. asked:


Couple of divorce lawyers said divorce can not be finalized while the wife is pregnant. So a friend of mine’s wife did not tell the judge she is pregnant in order for the divorce to be finalized. Can the divorce be void if the count find out but it’s already finalized? Can she be in any trouble? This case is in the state of Ohio.

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