~`~Nichole~`~ due July 21,2009 asked:


If you’re in a relationship now, what happened before the two of you got together doesn’t really matter? Right?? Not exactly, or not to me anyways.

Ok, say you’re “in love” with someone and you know something about their past but you also know that you don’t know the whole truth about it. Myself, I don’t mind being open with my b/f about my past sexual relations and I feel like if I can trust him that much, he should be able to do the same. It was before we got together, but we’re together now and I feel like him keeping that information from me is like he has something to hide… like maybe he’s been lying about everything the whole time. Don’t get me wrong, I love him and I trust him, but why does he get so angry when I ask him about it?

Past sexual relations don’t matter, but that’s something every person in a relationship should talk about.. In case one of the females he was messing with had a std or one of the guys I messed with was sick or something. It would just make me feel better to know.

QUESTION IS.. Should I be worried that he’s keeping it from me, or should I just let it go?
DiRtY.. Pretend you know me, pretend you and I are together.. If I messed with someone you heard about and you know as well as I do that they’re nasty as hell and ANYBODY would question whether or not something got, got.. you wouldn’t be “concerned” if I told you part of the situation and ended it in the middle saying you didn’t need to know the rest cause it wasn’t important?? And say you were my man, you wouldn’t know what I had during this pregnancy because you’re not here. Hope this isn’t getting too personal if u know what I mean.

compulsive liar

copytech asked:


My wife has been chatting online with old boyfriends. Their conversations have gotten pretty heavy. I feel terrible for snooping and reading her archives but what I read in their conversations made me feel worse. She has shared intimate details about our relationship. She talks about “regrets”. There’s the typical sex chat. And what might happen were they to meet up again. She even told one of them that she hasn’t gotten married yet. I had asked her in the past if she had relationships with these guys and she had always said no with some and yes with others. Well I realize now that she was lying to me about some of them. I’m 99.9% sure that she hasn’t physically cheated on me, but I feel dishonored and disrespected. When I confronted her about it she got mad because I invaded her privacy and she said I shouldn’t have read it. She also said that it’s just talk and it didn’t mean anything. I agree I shouldn’t have invaded her privacy. But I still feel terrible. What should I do?

pathological liars